I've gotten massages for most my life. Ppl need to recognize they truly are therapeutic for mind and body. I always selected a female masseuse when available. And only until recently did I go to an Asian massage parlor but declined any happy ending. Too nervous lol.
I have never heard of anyone having someone get carried away. I had a friend, and he went to school to learn massage, but he never did it after he got the license. Heck he did lots of stuff. Accounting degree, pilots license, barber license and he cut hair too, he was a partier. We used to go out and dance with the girls. I always wanted to learn how to massage, but only for fun. I always thought it would be romantic. Then he told me it might relax the ladies to sleep. LOL LOL LOL Obviously I wanted to give traditional massage, not sexual ones.